Trainer Shares 3 Tips for Helping Dogs with Separation Anxiety

Like people, some animals suffer from severe anxiety. Which is usually worsened when we leave them alone. This can make leaving the house incredibly unnerving for both them and us.

The things we do to provide comfort can sometimes have the opposite effect. Like these three common behaviors, which often contribute to the problem. Thankfully, they are also things we can easily change.

Check out this trainer’s advice in a video shared on November 28, and see if you can make a few adjustments to help your dog feel more secure.

Many pet parents have done these things before. I know I have and it took me some time to correct them. Trainer Sarah Hodgson @sarahsayspets explains that, by changing our behaviors, we can help prevent uneasiness in our pets.

Signs of Separation Anxiety

This condition can manifest in various behaviors and may range from mild to severe. Some dogs may bark, howl, or whine excessively when left alone. While others may engage in destructive behaviors such as chewing furniture, scratching doors, or digging. Trying to escape by squeezing through doors or windows, to reunite with their owner, is another way the show their uneasiness.

Some dogs with separation anxiety may urinate or defecate indoors, even if they are house-trained. This behavior usually stems from the stress of solitude. They may also decline to eat when left behind, even if they are otherwise good eaters.

Upon the owner’s return, a dog with separation anxiety may display exaggerated greeting behaviors, such as jumping, licking, and vocalizing, as a way of expressing relief and excitement. They may also follow their owners from room to room, not wanting to let their humans out of their sight.

A Trainer’s Advice

Although it can feel overwhelming, there are ways to stop it. First, she tells us; that we need to stop giving them attention on demand. This, she describes, only reinforces their anxiousness. Instead, she proposes, “Ignore attention-seeking behavior and encourage self-soothing with bones and toys. And waiting until they’re calm before giving attention.”

Our dramatic entrances and exits also contribute to their uneasiness. She recommends, “Leave and return calmly, waiting for your dog to settle before giving attention.” Although it’s hard to not acknowledge our dogs when we are coming or going, it makes a difference.

Finally, she tells us that when we overreact to misbehaviors, we only worsen the anxiety. When we remain calm, we help to avoid confusing them and increasing their anxiousness.

Consistency and patience are key when addressing separation anxiety in dogs. Seeking professional guidance can be invaluable in helping both the dog and the owner overcome this condition. It’s time and money well spent for everyone involved.